Move Out of Negative Speak – Use Positive Words
Do you know there is such a thing as negative speak? People speak to themselves very negatively and say “Oh well, if I had a 50/50 chance I would not be able to do it right”.
Negative speak is constant and rolls in our minds back and forth. We’ll speak in this way, to some extent about things in our life. When your friends do that to you; when they talk about themselves in negative ways, try to change that. Turn it around to their good attributes and the thing you like about them. Speak of their potential, maybe there is a whole lot you like about them. You see potential and great opportunities in their lives. Make them aware of those possibilities and you will make them shine, when they know someone believes in them. Do the same with your children, It is absolutely essential that you lift up and build up your children. Of course, they don’t have to be the very best in the world in something they do, but they have great attributes and they try hard and the effort is rewarded. You find what they are good at, excel at and increase it. Do the best you can.
When people start speaking negative, when a guy says “I am a jerk”, believe him; he probably is a jerk. Some people say “I don’t know everything, I don’t have a good memory and I am stupid”. I would not settle for that if you can change them and give them re assurance because they have some value. Do you know that acceptance is one of the top most wanted and valued attributes in everybody’s life.
We want to be accepted by people around us and we want to know we have contributed. There are some people that don’t seem to contribute that much but you know that they can help somebody and they can be a light in somebody’s day. Find some people in your day who need a little bit of support and may need encouragement or just for once, they need help. Often we are told that no one knew what was coming when people commit suicide without any tell tale signs. People are really good at hiding.
Don’t ever hide behind negative speak. Move to where you can get encouragement if you are that person who speaks negatively. Move to where there is more life, happiness and joy.
A great new resolution would be to promise yourself that you will not use negative speak. We all do it at some point but we should learn to do less of it every day. Correct your negatives into positives. Influence others to do the same.
Negative speak keeps us going backwards – you are not going that way. Re-affirm every negative thought with positives and follow through with your dreams, challenges and actions.
Ask God to show you how you can grow and reveal who you really are and that you can be a light also. Have a magnificent light-filled day. Use positive words. See you soon.
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