Jan R Miesse http://janrmiesse.com Bloom more fully every day Thu, 24 May 2012 20:05:03 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 Profound Moments To Remember In Your Life http://janrmiesse.com/2012/05/19/profound-moments-to-remember-in-your-life/ http://janrmiesse.com/2012/05/19/profound-moments-to-remember-in-your-life/#comments Sat, 19 May 2012 18:18:21 +0000 Jan R Miesse http://janrmiesse.com/?p=6534 It pays to always remember:

~A moment of profound truth that lights up your spirit.

~A moment of intense laughter that betrays all decorum.

~A moment of complete surprise as others see your joy.

~A moment of quiet conversation with a close and trusted friend.

~A moment of peace while walking though the park noticing every sound and every sight possible.

~A moment of a phone call when you hear a loved ones voice.

~A moment of a dream that excites you into purpose.

~A moment of passion that changes your life for the better.

~A moment of realization that life is fleeting and you have to follow your path.

~A moment when you acted foolishly and someone forgave you.

~A moment when someone did something so surprising and beautiful for you and you were overwhelmed with joy.

~A moment of care and consideration that you didn’t think you had in you.

~~A moment of prayer and communion with God that touched your soul.

~A moment of watching a newborn baby’s face that made you melt.

~A moment of notice from someone that made a lifetime connection.

You are blessed. If you think you are not – remember the moments of importance.

Bloom continually – Open the bud of your heart, mind and soul to the amazing depth of life offered through moments.

Moments to remember help us grow and bloom into more confident engaging people.

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]]> http://janrmiesse.com/2012/05/19/profound-moments-to-remember-in-your-life/feed/ 2 Talking To Men – I Overheard What They Said http://janrmiesse.com/2012/05/15/talking-to-men-i-overheard-what-they-said/ http://janrmiesse.com/2012/05/15/talking-to-men-i-overheard-what-they-said/#comments Tue, 15 May 2012 11:30:45 +0000 Jan R Miesse http://janalistening.wordpress.com/?p=2981 While speaking and talking to men, I overheard some interesting comments. For this speaking event there were a large number of men in the room. I began my talk by sharing briefly my inspiration to write a book.

 Bloom Girl Bloom (Real Women with Real Answers) grew from my interviews with women and through those who answered my blog. I asked questions and they freely, sometimes very emotionally, answered them. I was sensitive and careful if I saw that they were tender in some areas. I tried not to be nosy. This was confidential research for me. It was as though I was behind doors and overhearing women’s thoughts that were spoken out loud.

As I spoke with this group of men I heard a couple of them say, “I hope she didn’t talk to my wife.” Those statements surprised me and I smiled. These men might have been thinking that I had identified real people with authentic names.  I could see the concern in their faces. What they didn’t know is that I had not talked to any of their wives. I knew many of them but as I spoke I showed no judgment or criticism. I shared laughter and deeper thoughts of life. 

Are you concerned if someone should choose to quote you on any issue of life? We should always be purposeful and  thoughtful so that we might uplift and renew others. I don’t want anyone close to me telling someone or everyone unkind things I may have said. We must be mindful of how we speak and realize that what we say affects those around us.

Are your words worth repeating? Are you known for your stubbornness or your thoughtfulness?

Be who you are in a very improved way every day. Bloom.evergreen tree blue spruce nature beauty spring bloom

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When you go with friends to lunch and something is funny, sometimes you can’t quit laughing. Sound familiar?

Think of how you feel in that moment.  You are free, relieved of stress, light, airy, joyful, happy and thankful.

We need to find things to smile about and people to laugh with as often as possible. For example I’ll share these thoughts  to help you smile below:

~I drive way too fast to worry about cholesterol

~If Barbie is so popular, why do you have to buy her friends?

~When everything is coming at you, you’re in the wrong lane

There are people who say funny things and everyone bursts out laughing. I asked a woman once how she learned all of the one-liners and she replied that she has a good memory for them. She also shared that telling a long joke would be a disaster. We all can’t be naturally funny but everyone can smile in a way that is delightful.

When you see someone who looks unhappy, try to give them a smile. A comforting one. We can offer smiles that are cheer-up smiles or encouraging smiles. We can laugh like we’re nutty or with appreciation for someone who shares funny experiences. There are appropriate laughs and inappropriate ones.

I’ve watched women laugh at jokes that I am offended by because they are crude. I don’t feel the need to laugh at those words. In fact, when women are degraded – I probably frown and show disgust. Those aren’t happy moments, they are sad moments. At someone’s expense jokes are made. We want to help others, to bring light and good energy into their lives.

Be joyful when you can. Show happiness toward others. Laughing and smiling together is one of the healthiest happiest things you can do at any time.

Bloom wherever you are, in every way, ever day.

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When you realize that what is inside you, eventually comes out – will you re-evaluate what you let in?

To transform:
1. to change in form, appearance, or structure; metamorphose.
2. to change in condition, nature, or character; convert.
3. to change into another substance; transmute. – Dictionary.com
Your life can be exceptionally pleasing and happy. You can transform what you think life is, into something amazing. You will never doubt that you needed the attitude changes, the miracle happenings and the expectancy of positive thinking.
By realizing the opportunities around you, there can be light where there was darkness.
By understanding that you need to think forward and embrace your potential, you will succeed.
When life gets you down – count the things you are thankful for.
When people are negative – immediately change your thoughts to positive aspects or possibilites.
When you are sad – treasure that which was yours – allowing yourself to move forward into new adventures.
Transforming your life will transcend you to joy.
Consider that person you are envious of – why are you envious? It may be because of what they have on the outside and not who they are on the inside. Re-adjust your glasses and admire people who shine from the inside out. If you follow celebrities – you are not living your own excellent life.
When you hold a flower vase upside down, the flowers fall out if not anchored inside. When you hold your life upside down – everything falls apart. In floral school years ago, we as students, were made to make an arrangement of fresh flowers and then hold it upside down. We were not told in advance that it was a test of excellence. The same goes for your life – if we do not fill our foundation properly with things that matter, values, love, honesty and grace – we often fall apart and have to start over. Some people lay on the floor, like a fish, gasping for air. The fishbowl is empty, the water is gone and they give up. Take charge of your life. Don’t let anyone empty it of your purpose and passion.
When you think you can’t- ask for guidance by those you admire and by our great God.
When you don’t understand why life isn’t fair – know that it wasn’t fair for Jesus either; he was killed.
You have a full life to live – live it abundantly
You can be lifted daily.  You can be strong. You will persevere and never quit when you realize that you have it in you to be the best in life.
Bloom into your potential; think in ways that bring out the best in you.
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]]> http://janrmiesse.com/2012/05/09/transforming-your-life-to-transcend-into-joy/feed/ 0 Miracles Of God Are In Your Line of Sight http://janrmiesse.com/2012/05/09/miracles-of-god-are-in-your-line-of-sight/ http://janrmiesse.com/2012/05/09/miracles-of-god-are-in-your-line-of-sight/#comments Wed, 09 May 2012 15:44:31 +0000 Jan R Miesse http://janalistening.wordpress.com/?p=1795 Be strong in sharing your dreams – it takes bravery and courage.

“There are only two ways to live your life.
One is as though nothing is a miracle,
The other is as if everything is.” Einstein

Your choice. 

People love miracles and think they never see them. There are songs written about miracles but many individuals never believe they happen.

Look around you. Listen to those with great insight and deep faith. Miracles of God are in your line of sight and you can use them to be strong and thankful.

Happenings in life are often passed off as medical or physical accomplishments when I believe some are simply but beautifully miracles of God.

We do not give credit to daily miracles that protect us, enable us and give us strength and opportunities.

Sometimes we think finding a good parking spot is a miracle. I’m not talking about those types of wishes on our part.

Miracles that make us better, kinder, more aware, more tolerant, more outward reaching and loving help us realize the potential the miracles create.

Small miracles that are huge in thought, happen consistently to those who embrace them.

This earth and its beauty is a miracle of God. Your health and body systems, your breathing & abilities to hear, to speak, to see, to touch, to taste, to love are miracles. We have more miracles in our lives daily than we can count. Start looking around you and be thankful for those amazing days; for what is very likely a miracle in your life. It’s not science – it’s supernatural.woods walking path overgrown needs mowing springtime green grass beauty of nature walk breathe listen

Look for miracles, pray for miracles, expect miracles. Be excited and talk about your life miracles. Others will look, pray, expect and be excited about miracles in their own lives when they see what has happened for you. They will wonder if they can experience such a life of expectancy and gratitude.

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One particular four-year-old prayed, ’And forgive us our trash baskets as we forgive those who put trash in our baskets.’

Old age is when former classmates are so gray and wrinkled and bald, they don’t recognize you. 

Did you know? – The light at the end of the tunnel has been turned off due to budget cuts.

Did you know? I do not like housework. I make the beds and do the dishes and in six months I have to do it all over again.

Did you know?  Every one seems to be happy but I’m sure it’s the anti-depressants.

Next time you go to the playground and someone asks, “Which one is yours?” Reply – “I haven’t decided yet.”

A diplomatic husband said to his wife – “How can you expect me to remember your birthday when you never look any older?”

As a young child my mother told me I could be anyone I wanted to be. Turns out the police call this “Identity Theft.”

I’m thinking that if your relationship status says, “It’s complicated” that you should stop kidding yourself and change it to “Single”

I always wanted to be somebody, but now I realize I should have been more specific.

Smile today; give some away. Lighten your own load and someone else’s load by being caring and fun. Make someone’s day. Smiles work so much better than jokes to brighten a life because everyone can share them – you don’t have to be funny.

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I find that too many people spend all their time on the wedding plans, moving plans or baby plans; they do not learn about the life after the big event. The marriage, the daily life, the changes and focus should be planned to some extent.

When we transition whether it be as a bride to a marriage, a move to a completely new location or while getting ready for baby, think of what life has in store.

We should prepare for the times after the event stronger than we prepare for the event. There is alot of life after that day.

Always think with love of those around you so you do not hurt them or disrespect them. Include them in your thoughts for a better progressive life and personal growth. Life gets to be crazy times. You can avoid some of the uncertainty by knowing who you are and what you believe in; what you want for your family is worth thought.yellow-rose-nature-beauty-alanna-j-taylor-photography-bloom-blossoms-flowers-wedding-day-brides

Set goals for your new marriage. Commitments that you determine to keep should be solid in your mind. Promises of how life will be led is vital. Changes for you and your family should enhance life and its opportunities.

The absolute knowledge of what you want your life to look like will propel you into thinking more deeply about the possibilities as you step along the path.

Think ahead. If you’ve spent all of your money upfront for the big day you haven’t thought about life beyond.

We often wing it by taking care of details and then try to make the most of what we think we’ve done right. Many people do things right by showing care for the future as well as the fun day.

Make lists as to your priorities, your research, your avenues of sharing your heart and goals; stick to them.

Have fun planning. Have fun on your big days. Bloom in every possible way from that day forward.

I realize that there are excessive planners and they think nothing will go wrong with life. Things change and go wrong. Be positive in the changes and make life enjoyable with less stress and upset.

Be flexible with a plan B that will help you move along, possibly around that jagged edge, into paths of abundant living.

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People can change.

If you want to become a kinder person – you can change. If you want to learn more – no one can stop you.

I am still waiting for acquaintances to show some growth and forward thinking ideas to empower their lives. I have hope that they will change. I want to always be changing and growing into a better more helpful and caring woman. I never thought I’d have a sombrero on – that was a change for me – but fun!

If you want to share more – open up. If you want to give more – find someone in need.

If you have a passion that will not be stilled and it will propel you to new heights – jump on and ride.

People can change; I have seen it happen. New beginnings, better actions and choices and life’s amenities open up when someone decides they need to set a better example; when they realize they want something more defined.

I’ve watched people grow in character and strength. It seemed as though I could visually see actual building and healing as they progressed. It’s amazing and exciting.

Be the person who wants more, blooms more and is challenged to expand, express, enhance and nurture life.

You can change. I feel as though I am always changing; hopefully toward a deeper richer life in my relationships, my thoughtfulness, my prayers and with my Savior.

All people can change. Be one that wants to show your abilities and desires to use your opportunities to be guided toward total joy.

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]]> http://janrmiesse.com/2012/04/24/people-can-change-make-it-happen/feed/ 1 Engaging Your Life Fully – Intent And Purpose http://janrmiesse.com/2012/04/24/engaging-your-life-fully-intent-and-purpose/ http://janrmiesse.com/2012/04/24/engaging-your-life-fully-intent-and-purpose/#comments Tue, 24 Apr 2012 16:19:22 +0000 Jan R Miesse http://janalistening.wordpress.com/?p=3094 Engaging your life fully must be intentional.  Your intent and purpose will be fulfilled when you decide to bloom more fully every day. Make sure that you live a life of deep meaning.

You are probably living your purpose but possibly you have not engaged fully into the daily exciting journey.

What is your passion? Will it enhance or life or distract from your goals?

If it will enhance your life – move there and live it fully. The beauty of your days will surprise you. The loveliness that you experience will make you smile and share with others.

Your journey can be so much more rewarding and fulfilling if you engage your mind, body and spirit to purposefully produce. When you know what type of person you really want to ‘grow’ into – let nothing distract you.yellow-rose-nature-beauty-alanna-j-taylor-photography-bloom-blossoms-flowers

Embrace life fully with intentional purpose – find your garden path and move through rocks and briers into exceptional life.

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]]> http://janrmiesse.com/2012/04/24/engaging-your-life-fully-intent-and-purpose/feed/ 10 If God Had Not Created – Giving God Thanks http://janrmiesse.com/2012/04/24/if-god-had-not-created-giving-god-thanks/ http://janrmiesse.com/2012/04/24/if-god-had-not-created-giving-god-thanks/#comments Tue, 24 Apr 2012 16:03:27 +0000 Jan R Miesse http://janrmiesse.com/?p=5867 Gratitude is the only word that fits when describing this amazing world of beauty and nature. The mountains, valleys, sea and forests are truly inspired by our great Creator – giving God thanks is simply something we should do daily.

If God had not created the green grass and fragrant flowers – our earth would be dull.

If God had not created the mountains and the oceans – our earth would have less grandeur.cardinal-in-winter-snow-squirrels-food-nature-beauty-creation-God-majesty

If God had not created the wind, clouds, sun and sky – our days would be dismally dark.

If God had not created humor, goodness, laughter and encouragements – our lives would not be light.

If God had not created compassion, care and divine love – we could not know any type of heart toward others.

If God had not created you – there would be no person in this world who is uniquely beautifully made – like you.

If God had not created minds that think and understand – we could not show a thankful attitude toward his offering such majesty and lavishness to us.

Breathe it in. Lift hands in true admiration. Intentionally offer a prayer that comes from that miraculous heart he gave you.

Be blessed and bloom extravagantly toward others in this world. You have the opportunity every single day.

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