How To Trust Someone
Once again I have received another message about trust.
A lot of women have trust issues; they have been taking advantage in the past. Someone has lied to them or someone has told secrets they don’t want told to anyone else. What is trust? It is confidence. Having confidence in someone that they will do what they mean and mean what they say. It is an assurance that they have the ability to follow through and it’s also hope. A little bit of hope that you can trust that person to do what they say they will do.
If you have ever had people you work with and you just don’t trust them around your things or employees you don’t trust in the business; it is really devastating and very upsetting that people take advantage of others. The way that you regain trust is that step by step you give little tests; that is the best way and the most real way I can say it. See if they will follow through with the small things before you trust them again.
There are some people you will never trust again and that’s OK because they will not be true and they have proven that to you. They have not earned respect or trust since they betrayed you. There are people that just say “I will do this” “I will go there” and “I will sign up” and they are always having excuses. I don’t know it is necessarily a trust issue but you know in your head they might back out.
Try to trust people when you can, give them the benefit of the doubt. You don’t need to trust them with any big secret of your life or something you are struggling with but you can trust them with small things that really don’t matter that much. Then they prove that they are trustworthy.
I want you to have hope in people because people are good and often will connect with you. They will protect you and they will be trustworthy because they care about you. Walk softly when you need to. Protect yourself but get into relationships with people who are known to be trustworthy. People who do what they say and say what they mean and you can believe them. Have a beautiful day and bloom on.
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